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« on: February 17, 2009, 01:26:19 AM »

http://www.time.com/time/magazine/article/0,9171,1879201,00.html

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Why have we caught the hug bug? Mental-health professionals cite everything from increasing population density to community spirit among millennials. Some theories point to 9/11 bringing the country together and to The Sopranos showing that tough guys can hug too.


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Of course, hugging has its haters. Schools in a handful of states have banned the gesture, with a middle-school principal in Oak Park, Ill., explaining back in 2007 that groups of students--typically girls--were jamming the hallways with "extreme hugging" and making other kids late for class.
 

 This was big news up here. A girl got suspended from school because of a hug. ridiculous. That being said I wouldnt want strange people just hugging me instead of shaking my hand. I dont really like people I know and love hugging me.   laughing   on the other side though it cant really hurt to have people be more open with others.. share the love ya know.   Smile
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« Reply #1 on: February 17, 2009, 04:54:29 AM »

 Waving  When I was a child, our family hardly ever did the "huggy" thing.  I would kiss my mom and such, but the hug just wasn't usually a part of the equation.  As a result, I am not very "touchy-feely" and will usually shy away from a hug from a stranger.  However, I could get used to hugs from strangers...if they were good-looking guys...and would certainly return the favor.  whistle

People in the U.S. just do not do the "huggy" thing much.  Americans like a little personal space around them at all times, and to hug someone means to invade that space, which can make us uncomfortable.  Europeans, on the other hand, tend to hug much more and will invade your personal space and get right up in your face.  This will usually make Americans then take a step or two back to regain that personal space.
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« Reply #2 on: February 17, 2009, 05:32:22 AM »

My husband and his family are give me a hug kinda people. drives me crazy. Its just not something im comfortable doing. just thinking about it is making it harder to breath.    laughing    I like my personal space to much.   

I do think it could be a good thing if more people did that. just leave me out of the mix. 
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