Im so tired of my brother calling me with his latest disaster. ya know what! He is one man! He should  take care of himself . Their are FIVE people being supported in this house. We cant afford to take care of him too.. He called at the wrong time today to twitch to me. I had just sat down to pay bills when he called. Look, I have 2000.00 in bills every month that I pay. In addition to gas and groceries. Stop calling me with your freaking sob stories. Get a freaking second job ok. He works 25 hrs a week is all. Why? because he is a lazy bum. lazy bum lazy bum.!!!!     

Oh, And he is a terrible influence on my daughter. He's funny and goofy and a huge pot head. She just thinks that is so funny! Its not funny. He is a freakin bum ok! He will always be a freakin bum ok! Its not cute to be a 36 yr old pothead dishwasher. He just opens his mouth and says whatever he wants without thinking hey, maybe the kids are around. maybe I should watch what I say. noooooooo!..

Until he shapes up he better just stay the hell away from me and my family.

feels good to get that out. 

That is EXACTLY the way my brother is when he isn't in prison    He'll be 30, he's a drunk, pothead, foul-mouthed, dishwasher also!!  And again, when he isn't in prison.  

He was washing dishes at Golden Corral the last time he got arrested.  Yep, while at work.  He lived with us off and on til I told him to get out and never come back.  He also worked 25 hours a week.  Sometimes 30 if they asked him to work overtime.  He'd start drinking before he was even off of work or he'd drink and THEN go to work.  He thought it was funny(while smashed) to tell the boys stories while using the foulest words imaginable, preferrably, foul words that replaced proper words for the human anatomy.  The boys love him dearly which makes it all so sad.

And Trace, if your brother is anything like my brother, the whole world is out to get him!  Never once has he taken the slightest bit of responsibility for his life.  It's always someone else's fault for why he does the things he does or why his life is nonsense.  He'll call Mother from prison, whining about how he got thrown in the hole for cussing out the guards.  The guards made him do it.  The guards treat him like mess.  He ain't having no guard talk that way to him(his words).  He's repulsive and childish.  I hope when he gets out that Mother will not enable him this time cuz I'm done!  I haven't spoken to him in many years and feel no remorse about it.

They need good, ready to settle down, women to straighten their        out!

The way I look at it...if you wouldn't put up with it from your kids then you shouldn't have to put up with it from your family!!  Good luck ~ I know it is hard.  You love them and you want them to change, but sometimes it just isn't possible!!

He would have to leave his apartment for that to happen. Cant just sit around getting stoned and expect the women to come to you. oh, but he did have one. yeah, his best friend of 25 yrs took him in when he had no where to go and was sleeping in his car and ya know what? He started an affair with his friends wife. nice huh? 

Trace-I know this is serious stuff, but I just had to laugh at that LOL!  That is SO my brother to a T!!  I can't count how many girlfriends/wives of his friends my brother has slept with for one reason or another.  When he started sleeping with mine, I lost all respect for him and her/them.

I was thrown into mediator role even though these girls knew how he was!  How could they not?  They saw him first-hand disrespect many ladies who'd come to my house with him to get clothes, take him to work, etc.  He once ripped the shirt off of a recent girlfriend to expose her breasts for all to see.  This was during Mother's Day no less and was done in front of my children, her children, my niece, and not to mention our mother.  My girlfriend was here with her kids as well and supported me and hubby when hubby had to run him off.  My girlfriend came over to my house a week later....with my brother!  They were "taking things slow" and "seeing where things might lead."  Led his grits to jail is where it led when he stole her car and wrecked it.  She cried.  I laughed.