hey guys. So I need some advice.
HOw do you get over your break up. My brother is 22, his first love "broke his heart", and now this 2nd one broke his heart.
He is not your typical guy.  I kind of wish he was, but nope hes not.  He falls to fast, and wants one girl, and only one girl. And he wants a real relationship, right now people his age just want to have fun, hook up, whatever. But my brother wants serious relationships.
Well this last girl, they went out for 8 months, he did everything for her, she took total advantage of him. He put her on his car insurance, she was living at my parents house, and the last thing was my dad loaned her $8,000 for a car. Well guess what, a week later, when we went on vacation, she broke up with him, and moved out of the house, that was in june.
So he has been real depressed. He lost his job, and the biggest kicker. He got arrested for a dui, thats another story. But now he has been moping around the house. He can't go anywhere, unless some one drives him around. What to do? It is killing me seeing him like that. Im 23, so im only a year older, but I have been married for almost 5 years. I think that maybe he wishes he could have something like I have. I don't know. I just wish I could fix this, I don't like seeing him so sad.

Any advice?

Tiff, I am sorry your brother is going through a rough time.  Lee is right, you need to get him involved in things.  Drag him out and make him do things.  Work with him on his resume.  If he doesn't have a degree, take his butt to a career center and get him some training for a new job.  Have your parents give him jobs to do at the house.  Every house has some repaid work that needs to get done. 

Also, get him out on the social scene.  Call some of his friends and make him go out one night. 

I know it is hard to watch him go through this.  My brother was the same way.  He finally found his wife.  But, it took a lot of heartbreak.

Just be there for him and push him if he needs it.  He's lucky to have you! 

lol let me guess your daughter lives somewhere far away from fl right? I wish he could just find some other girl,  but then he might fall head over heels with her. And it would just be some vicious cycle. 
Hopefully this weekend, we can figure out something to do, get his mind off of this.

update, my brother is still upset about the breakup. We got the girls mail in our mailbox the other day, and me not thinking, I gave it to my bro. SO he had to bring it to her. They met for lunch. He was actually crying at the restaurant, and she didn't care, she just wanted her dumb package. UH. So he came home, and made like a sighing sound. And went in his room and slammed the door. I knew he was upset. But didn't bother him. Me and my mom were sopposed to go shopping (thats why I was there) and so I left with my mom. My brother called and was really upset and wanted my mom to come home. So we did. And then I went to my house. hes been upset since. Ugh I wish I could just see that girl one more time.
And I would Sit on her! And Not get up until she apologizes or something to my bro. lol I don't know how to fight. But I am twice her size, so I bet I could hurt her that way.

ok Im a retard I know. I just really want to do something to make her sorry.

Thanks for the advice. I hope he figures out soon, that she is not worth it.

Hey Tiff! How's your bro doing now?