...is for cowards.

I've always had a problem with passive aggressive people.  I can't understand why they don't have the balls to say what's on their mind.  Maybe they don't have one.  Maybe they don't have balls.  Maybe they're just cowards hiding behind whatever.

I've always said that it's easy to hide behind a computer.  People wouldn't say half the nonsense they say on the computer to your face.  They'd most likely be afraid of an grits whoopin'.  And I'd most certainly would whoop 'em    I've noticed that most of the passive aggressive people I have encountered are religious and they hide behind God.  I hate to break it to 'em but God knows what the dealio is and so do I.  You can't get away with it.  HE knows all!

Do you hate passive aggressiveness as much as I?  Do you hate something totally different?  I'd love to hear about it.

I agree too, Red, but I can't call them what I really want to call them.  I figured passive aggressive fit their behavior and was insult enough. 

I see it in various circumstances.  Someone shunning your post in a not-so-subtle way or posting right after you do, trying to mess on your post in a not-so-subtle way.  They don't think I see it or anyone else sees it but they're wrong. 

IRL I have a neigbor lady who likes to think her mess is lined in gold and shines like diamonds but really it only shines like a cubic zirconia.  She has a dog who likes to jump into their pond when they are not looking.  Well, the other neighbor's dog is a mutt and she likes to jump into the pond as well.  Her name is Sadie.  Sadie is the sweetest dog in the world and I love her almost as much as I love my boys.  The nasty neighbor likes to complain to Sadie's owners about what a mess dog Sadie is for jumping in her pond and clogging up the filter.  I butted in on her last tirade and told her that her dog(who likes to eat her own mess)is the fur culprit.  I also decided to tell her that her son is a drug addict who sh!ts on her porch right as he's passing out and I will no longer stand by and watch him blame it on Sadie.  I also told her I wouldn't know about her son sh!tting on the porch if he wasn't calling me over so he could "scratch my beaver."  Right before he took a hot steamy dump.

I overheard the nosey baseball mom that I hate say that the mess neighbor was contemplating putting her house up for sale.  Score one for the sinner!! 

I dont know what my personality would be called.  I hate fighting and confrontations. So I don't always speak whats on my mind. But I don't usually talk behind peoples back. There has been some rare cases. When those people really deserved it and I was telling the truth just stating facts.

I think I learned through out the years not to always say whats on my mind. I used to get in alot of trouble for doing that. Its good to keep some things to yourself!!   

Personally, I enjoy a good salty outburst now and then.  However, as a mod here, I will ask you to please be careful what you post.  There are people who visit here who will be upset by the thinly disguised naughty words.

If you'd like to use big words instead, when a doggie does that (and its normal doggie behavior) its called coprophagy

Yeah, I guess I could have used nonsense.  For the record, though, I wasn't trying to disguise s h i t ...I happened to notice in PMs that there is a word filter.  I figured it'd be more polite to do mess than s h i t.  Sorry, guys.  I really try not to post when I'm even a little steamed.  I didn't even plan on posting all of that.  I finished sweeping for the night and thought I'd glance over the chatter in the forums right quick.  Next time I think I'll pass   

The thing is, I don't even live in a neighborhood.  I live in the country.  Woods behind the house, the whole nine.  Besides the neighbors directly across the road, the other neighbors live anywhere from 1/4-1/2 an acre away.  I live 10 miles from the nearest city.  I don't know.  I just hope the neighbor guy across the road quits tinkling outside in broad daylight...in the middle of the day...right in front of his house where everyone can see him.  We all have enough privacy out here.  Some of us use it and some of us don't I guess.  And I hope the evil neighbor lady would knock the chip off of her shoulder and realize the mutt dog is just as worthy of breathing as her dog. 

Red-what big word can I use for "scratch my beaver?" 

Anyways, it's a new day.  The sun is shining, a cool breeze is blowing, and the birds are chirping.  I'll be alright as long as there aren't anymore fly-by bird dumps that land on our deck and lawn furniture.

ROFLMAO!!!  I looked it up just to make sure 

Actually I think that would be great on a t-shirt.

I haven't been on here long but I'm taking bets completely DOES IT!!! 

Oh yeah~! why, oh why did I pick a username that rhymes with "dead"

I don't necessarily disagree, LDS.  I can see people holding back because of that.  I personally do a lot of that(holding back), believe it or not.  I have a "different" outlook on a lot of things that most people probably do not agree with or would want to accept.  So, I admire people who do think differently(let's say outside the box) and who do have the courage to speak their minds when it is not necessarily convenient. 

I find myself holding back when I know it could/would affect my children.  I don't want them being judged for how their mother thinks or what their mother believes.  Not to say that I am ashamed, but as a parent you have to think of your kids and protect their feelings from being hurt by judgemental people who in reality just really don't like their mother or their father for whatever reason.

And LDS, as long as the person who believes differently than I do doesn't try shoving their beliefs down my throat in a disrespectful way, then I don't have a problem with them or what they choose to believe.  When they start calling me names or attempt to put me down then I have a problem.

I guess the bottom line is as long as people are respectful and considerate with one another, it's all good 

I like your thinking on this. It amazes me that someone so prejudiced against Chocoholic Wolf Queens could be so smart!   

Completelyme, I had a pm from you and accidentally deleted it. You know which one I am talking about, just wanted you to know that I wasn't ignoring you! Also, sometimes it takes me awhile to get back to pm's. I don't know why, it's bad...I know and I should be beaten with a wet noodle.