
It's my own personal opinion, that I will wear what I like. I don't really care what others think.
I would go with it myself. I think alot of it also plays out on what part of the country you live in. Here in the Northwest nobody would care what color your shoes are. I'm guessing that if you live in a metro area that off white would be more appropriate.
I'm guessing more people will be talking about what the bride wore. Sorry I wasn't much help.