To me, it's something comprised of many different things--looks being the last consideration.  How a person treats others, how they treat you, how they feel about themselves, how considerate they are, their compassion. their outlook on life, etc.  When people are constantly coming up to me and telling me how wonderful my husband is--that's sexy.  How he always wants to hug and kiss me--that's sexy.  How he likes me to sit on his lap--that's sexy.  How he still says I'm hot even after gaining 60 to 70 pounds while pregnant--that's sexy (to add, only 31 pounds to go!!LOL).  How he rants and raves to others about me, my cooking, etc.--that's sexy.  How he comes running home from work after not being able to get a hold of me for an hour knowing I'm there--that's sexy.  How he never puts me down, yells at me, fights with me, calls me names--that's sexy.  All this and much more is what makes my husband sexy to me.  Oh, and I do find the long hair and tattoos sexy too!!

LIDARKSIDE - you''ve said it all!  My hubby is that way too and you are right - there is nothing better!

Sexy to me can mean a lot of things like a sexy look, a sexy touch, some times a total melt down and pouting is sexy to me. 

Just depends on my mood at the time and some times not one thing is sexy to me. LOL

I must be getting old....because I never think of things like this.

What would attract me to a man would be his inner qualities, like honesty, loyalty, kindness, etc.

His outward appearance would not matter to me in the slightest.

I steer clear of men, however, for the most part and I do not date at all.  I have been thru too much turmoil in that department and I enjoy living in peace now.