Passive aggressiveness...

LIDARKSIDE said:
There's a reason why many people won't speak their minds anymore. Whenever someone states their views, opinions, and/or beliefs (especially beliefs), there are those who feel it's their position to blast them for not having the same views, opinions, and/or beliefs as they do. :scratch:
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I don't necessarily disagree, LDS. I can see people holding back because of that. I personally do a lot of that(holding back), believe it or not. I have a "different" outlook on a lot of things that most people probably do not agree with or would want to accept. So, I admire people who do think differently(let's say outside the box) and who do have the courage to speak their minds when it is not necessarily convenient.

I find myself holding back when I know it could/would affect my children. I don't want them being judged for how their mother thinks or what their mother believes. Not to say that I am ashamed, but as a parent you have to think of your kids and protect their feelings from being hurt by judgemental people who in reality just really don't like their mother or their father for whatever reason.

And LDS, as long as the person who believes differently than I do doesn't try shoving their beliefs down my throat in a disrespectful way, then I don't have a problem with them or what they choose to believe. When they start calling me names or attempt to put me down then I have a problem.

I guess the bottom line is as long as people are respectful and considerate with one another, it's all good :sunny:
 
Its all just a passing illusion anyway :sunny:

Savage, extreme, rude, cruel, not to trust.
Enjoyed no sooner but despised straight,
Past reason hunted, and no sooner had,
Past reason hated as a swallowed bait
On purpose laid to make the taker mad:
Mad in pursuit, and in possession so,
Had, having and in quest to have, extreme,
A bliss in proof and proved, a very woe,
Before, a joy proposed, behind, a dream
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that shakespeare guy
 
completelyme said:
I find myself holding back when I know it could/would affect my children. I don't want them being judged for how their mother thinks or what their mother believes. Not to say that I am ashamed, but as a parent you have to think of your kids and protect their feelings from being hurt by judgemental people who in reality just really don't like their mother or their father for whatever reason.
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I like your thinking on this. It amazes me that someone so prejudiced against Chocoholic Wolf Queens could be so smart! :laughing:
 
Completelyme, I had a pm from you and accidentally deleted it. You know which one I am talking about, just wanted you to know that I wasn't ignoring you! Also, sometimes it takes me awhile to get back to pm's. I don't know why, it's bad...I know and I should be beaten with a wet noodle. :nono:
 
Wolfie said:
Was that passive aggressive enough for you? :laughing:
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More like smart ass :laughing: Here. Try one of my raisinets :laughing: :whistle:

Completelyme, I had a pm from you and accidentally deleted it. You know which one I am talking about, just wanted you to know that I wasn't ignoring you! Also, sometimes it takes me awhile to get back to pm's. I don't know why, it's bad...I know and I should be beaten with a wet noodle. :nono:
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A PM from here? There? I forget. Send Jager and I'll forgive you :cheers:
 
LIDARKSIDE said:
There's a reason why many people won't speak their minds anymore. Whenever someone states their views, opinions, and/or beliefs (especially beliefs), there are those who feel it's their position to blast them for not having the same views, opinions, and/or beliefs as they do. :scratch:
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Try being a gay, Buddhist who has kids and lives in the south :whistle:
 
LIDARKSIDE said:
There's a reason why many people won't speak their minds anymore. Whenever someone states their views, opinions, and/or beliefs (especially beliefs), there are those who feel it's their position to blast them for not having the same views, opinions, and/or beliefs as they do. :scratch:
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Thats true for people who arent necessarily believers too. The blasting goes both ways
 
Oh, at least I am in good company! :laughing:

I think my head could spin around and I could spit pea soup too! I am a total whack job today! :laughing:

If tomorrow is the same, I am going to take an early weekend and start :cheers: early! :laughing:
 
gorgor said:
LIDARKSIDE said:
There's a reason why many people won't speak their minds anymore. Whenever someone states their views, opinions, and/or beliefs (especially beliefs), there are those who feel it's their position to blast them for not having the same views, opinions, and/or beliefs as they do. :scratch:
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Try being a gay, Buddhist who has kids and lives in the south :whistle:
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Gorgor, too bad your not my brother in law. We are looking for him right now and he is in the south and also gay but, he doesn't have children so I know you aren't my BIL!. We would like him to meet our children, haven't seen him in about 11 years! Every lead to him turns out to be a dead end.
 
miki said:
Gorgor, too bad your not my brother in law. We are looking for him right now and he is in the south and also gay but, he doesn't have children so I know you aren't my BIL!. We would like him to meet our children, haven't seen him in about 11 years! Every lead to him turns out to be a dead end.
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I'm not your BIL, sorry. I have a sister.. a woman who adopted me" pretty much when my parents were killed when I was 17. She nags me.. I mean, she loves me. :whistle:

I don't have any real brothers or sisters.
 
LMAO!! I so love you aggressive folks :love: And drinking folks...even though it's smart ass er I mean Wolfie who's drinking :laughing: :cheers: I still have half a pack of those raisinets :whistle:

Try being a gay, Buddhist who has kids and lives in the south
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OMG, gorgor! LMAO!! No offense at all, dude, for laughing but that struck me as hilarious :laughing:


I'm pretty passive today which is weird for me :scratch: I even let hubby leave his dirty underwear on the bathroom floor after he showered. I made my oldest pick them up and put them in the hamper :laughing:
 
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AHHHHH where'd the lysol go!!!! Kailey go hide in the closet quick!!! :crazytongue:
 
I even let hubby leave his dirty underwear on the bathroom floor after he showered. I made my oldest pick them up and put them in the hamper

That is child abuse!!!!! Letting your kid pick up daddys dirty underware!! eww yucky. I'd be scarred for life. :cry: :laughing:
 
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