*I have *&%$ing grey hairs*

champagne

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*I have *&%$ing grey hairs*

I'm sooooooo maxed out with my stress, i feel like my chest is gonna explode... With my job and my wedding planning... it's hell... yesterday i was sooo pissed at the girl i work with i was ready to say f&^% you b&&^, kiss my a@@... F*&^ You and your deadlines... i was that frusterated... and now with just trying to get an idea of what center pieces i want to with, what colors i "really" want, what candles, what flowers.... i am sooo irritated, im ready to go down to the court house and be down with this sh&^...... Ohhh and the honeymoon... omg, don't even get me started on that... i'd like to fly to vegas and stay at the wynn, my fiance wants to go to barbados or bahamas .... yesterday i was doingmy hair or work... started parting it and brushing it.... BOOM,,,, a total of 4 grey hairs... wtf is up with that? that isn't coo. at my age...... i'm soooooo stressout it ain't even funny.....what am i to do? like i said sometimes i feel like getting all dolled up and goin' down to the courts and boom, 20 minutes its done.....

if i do that, we lose our deposits already put down.....(reception decorator, photographer, ceremony/recp site)....

I thought planning was supposed to be fun and not make you age drastically.... :cry:

I'm gonna go re-fill my wine glass if anyone wants 2 join me in my moment right now.... :cheers:
 
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Okay...there is not a lot fun about planning a wedding. It is stressful for the WOMAN because they feel like if it isn't perfect it will reflect on them ~ the man picks out a tux and shows up- period!

Take a day off and relax. Don't think about it. Go out alone and spend sometime doing something that you like to do by yourself. Read a book, listen to music, take a nap(ha!) anything but think about the wedding. Charge those batteries and get ready to tackle it again.

Those four hairs pull them and forget them...blame them on the soon~to~be~hubby, I'm sure that somehow it is his fault :laughing: (go ahead and get in that mindset early! :crazytongue:)
 
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Thanks ping... i decided that last night.... no wedding bullsh*&^ at all this weekend.... i'm actually sick of talking about it at times.... watching bridezilla has made me crazy... lol ... a break it is this weekend .. thanks for responding ping girllllllll........
 
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Awww (((hugs))) you need to take a break and have a pamper Champagne day. I have some gray hair also and it's so depressing, I dye it to hide. I was telling dh today that I want a haircut and box of hair dye monday. He laughed and I told him my gray is coming through again and he goes "oh you poor thing, gray hair...you want to talk about gray hair??" He is 32 and has somewhat salt and pepper hair now but, it's not too bad and I think it looks good on him anyways. I told him girls aren't suppose to have gray hair, especially at 30! He just rolled his eyes, doesn't understand how depressing it really is for a woman of our age to have them. I noticed them a few years ago.

Want to know something odd? My son has one and so does my daughter.
 
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Exactly Miki girl... at my age (30) i thought i shouldn't be having them yet... and the crazy thing is.... 1 of them is hella longgggggggggg......... pass my bra... so i have all this long BLACK hair and athat 1 sticks out like a sore thumb.. lol .... i seen one of my girls in the grocery store and we got to chit chatting and she goes "ummm what the hell is that?".... "why do you have that long a@@ witch looking strand showing".... lol .... i cussed her out but in the end i told her she's right and i should pull them out, but my hairdresser said not to that i'll get even more :cry:
 
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I pull them out, I know I shouldn't but, I do. It's also a myth, you don't get 4 growing in it's place when you pull them out. It wouldn't be too bad if they weren't so course. I would ask your hairdresser if there is anything you could use besides completely dying your hair if you don't want to do that. I have been dying mine since I was a teenager. I know all too well about long hair, mine was past my butt and then in 2006 during some major problems in my life I chopped it off (and pierced my eyebrow). Right now, I prefer it a little past shoulder length or at least at my shoulders.

Hang in there!
 
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