To me, it's something comprised of many different things--looks being the last consideration. How a person treats others, how they treat you, how they feel about themselves, how considerate they are, their compassion. their outlook on life, etc. When people are constantly coming up to me and telling me how wonderful my husband is--that's sexy. How he always wants to hug and kiss me--that's sexy. How he likes me to sit on his lap--that's sexy. How he still says I'm hot even after gaining 60 to 70 pounds while pregnant--that's sexy (to add, only 31 pounds to go!!LOL). How he rants and raves to others about me, my cooking, etc.--that's sexy. How he comes running home from work after not being able to get a hold of me for an hour knowing I'm there--that's sexy. How he never puts me down, yells at me, fights with me, calls me names--that's sexy. All this and much more is what makes my husband sexy to me. Oh, and I do find the long hair and tattoos sexy too!! :crazytongue: