Kandy the most horrible moment of my life was when they took my Son off life support. I do not feel they gave him time enough nor did they do any surgery. I only got him on life support by begging on my knees to every Doctor who walked by. In halls, roaming all over the hospital while he was bleeding out in the emergency room. RHnegAB blood even. I got him on it because one fresh new intern let me do it. He had some compassion in his eyes. The only compassion I seen in the whole place. I thank God for this Doc every night. I had a night to say good bye and pray for a miracle. He lasted an hours drive in an ambulance an hour for it to get to his house and several hours in emergency. He had no health insurance. Sad huh. I did it with the promise I could get his wife there. I did, big mistake. She signed papers to take him off life support, wouldn't speak to him at all, and promptly the day OF to move in with her convict boyfriend. I never will believe she is innocent in his death. I Pray you have resolution and peace. No words in the world will appease the hurt, anguish in this situation. All I can say, I feel your pain. I do every night at this time being stuck in a little dementia I relive it over and over at bed. He died I know at 3:15am because I woke up at that time for a year till Stu was born. He died at 10:48AM legally. I will pray!
So sorry to hear about your friend. Will be praying for all of you.
