Ok...take a deep breath and slowly let it out. There is help out there. Breathhhhhhh.... :laughing: When we got out dog, he decided to bite me one day, and had just become unruly. Ended up with a few stitches, and my husband said he was going back to the pound. Of course, I threw a fit, but even I knew his behavior couldn't be allowed to continue. Try one of the zapper collars. I know some people are gonna think I'm a fiend for using it on him, but it honestly doesn't hurt them. There are 10 settings on it, and my husband tried the highest setting on himself, so we know what it felt like. That thing was a godsend!!! I can't say enough about it. You put the collar on them and set it at a low setting and up the setting until they feel it. I think we had ours set at 4. There is one button on the remote for a zap and another button for a buzzer noise. When the dog does something wrong, you first make the buzzer noise, and then you give them a little zap. They get the message quickly!! I think I only had to zap my dog about 2 times, and after that, the buzzer only did the trick. I now how the best, most loving, well behaved dog in the neighborhood. When even too him on vacation with us last year, and he was a dream dog. Those collars work. They are a little pricey, but they are soooooooo worth it, and a heck of a lot cheaper than obedience school. I also think petsmart has a collar for just barking dogs, so that may be all you need. I think they work by automatically giving something to them when they start barking.