Boo on you ping lol
Miki, $16 to buy it? If its new yea thats a good price. Used, then you should wait.
I used to volunteer at a group home. There was this little 7 yearold girl there, that I absolutely just loved. She was so beautiful, sweet (at times lol) and I just felt so bad for her. She had long black curly hair, her hair was so beautiful. Well I would help them with thier homework etc. My husband and I started the foster care process when I was 22 and he was 25. About a year and half ago. About a year after hanging out with her, we decided we wanted to try and adopt her. We started home visits on the weekends. We would take her for a day, then she would spend the night with us. It was going ok at first, then things started getting confused. We came into this really thinking we were going to adopt her. But some things messed it up. One was her age, and our age. We are really young parents. Sometimes it was hard for her to really take us seriously. I don't know if that was just our age, or what. Another thing was she had a really hard life at just a young age. So she had some problems. At first I didn't know some of this, but as I learned more, I didn't really think I could handle some of it. And then the last part that really broke my heart. Was that she is mixed, half black, half white. Well some of my family on both sides are racists. We are a close family, have lots of parties, etc. Well She went with us to one of the parties. And my own grandmother was like don't do this, bla bla bla talking about her race, and all this stuff. Well I thought long and hard about it, and talked to some people, and realized it wouldn't be right for her, or us. It took me a long time to finally come to peace with this. I'm still constantly reminded as we live really close to the group home. My daughter adored her, so it was hard on her. Well to make a long story short. I don't volunteer there anymore. I just felt so bad, that I had let her down. That I didn't want to constantely remind her about that.
Well the last time I saw her, was christmas day. Rocky, Kailey and I went over there and gave her some dvds, stuff animal. And talked with her. She was really happy to see us. I know deep in my heart that I shouldn't of let her down like that. But it was the best for both of us. She needs stability and she gets it in the group home, where there are counslors, doctors, etc that she can see.
I've always been interested in fostercare/adoption. I think God has put it on my heart. My family thinks I'm crazy though. They say its an admiral thing to do. But they are like, why don't you just have your own kids. (And i'm like they would be my own kids) They just wont be biological.
I'm still young, and have some growing up to do. Thats why I haven't gotten desperate about having more kids. I've been off bc for 2 years and haven't gotten pregnant. I think God has some kind of plan for me. I just don't know what it is yet?
Hmm lol ok enough rambling
But yea miki if you want to donate, look up your local citys foster website. They love to get donations.