Be prepared to feel totally violated after leaving....hehehehe.
Massages, done correctly, won't leave you feeling violated. I've had lots of massages. I've gone to a male and a female. The massage therapist SHOULD do their best to make you feel at ease and allow you leave on as much clothing as you feel comfortable with. A lot of the places now have not stone massages, which wouldn't require any touching (if you aren't comfortable with that) and is very relaxing. Pamper yourself, enjoy. You only live once.
I had a guy and I gota tell you I think he did more damage than good. I mean my muscles ache more now than when I went in lol. I didn't have a problem with the touching me I just was not impressed.